(001)▪︎[ Relationships … 2026 ]

Which relationship has taught you the most about yourself?

[ Which Relationship? ]

[ You Believe The Relationship That You Had With Your Ex-Wife Taught You The Most About Yourself ]

[ It Pointed Out Your Strengths ]

[ It Pointed Out Your Weaknesses Also ]

[ You Found How Codependent You Became With Your Wife ]

[ You Thought That Your World Would Crumble Without Her In Your Life ]

[ Now You Have Found That You Are Much Stronger Without Her ]

[ You Have Found That There Is Life After Divorce ]

[ So That Relationship Taught Me Alot About Myself! ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

(150)▪︎[ What Could Have Been … 2025 ]

[ Maybe If You Never Ran Into All Of Those Heartbreakers In The Past ]
[ A Better Relationship Could Have Been In The Forefront Of Your Mind ]
[ You Wanted @ Least One Of Those Relationships To Last ]
[ They Just Weren’t The Lasting Kind ]

[ That You Were Looking For ]
[ Either They Wanted Or You Wanted More ]
[ When It Was Time To Go ]
[ You Showed Them The Door ]

[ You Never Meant For Things To End On Bad Terms ]
[ When They Would Get Upset ]
[ You Knew That They Were Just Words ]
[ But They Were Quite Different From When You (2) First Met ]

[ Back Then You Looked @ Life Through Rose Colored Glasses ]
[ You Would Ignore The Times ]
[ When Guy After Guy Made Passes ]

[ @ Whomever You Were With @ The Time ]
[ Pretty Soon A Big Mountain Would Get    
In-Between ]
[ Then It Became An Obstacle To Climb ]

[ She Thought That Being Flirtatious Was Fun ]
[ She Did Not Rebuff A Single One ]
[ But You Were Warned ]
[ If You Acted Like That, She Would Take Off & Run ]

[ You Were Never The Flirtatious Type ]
[ Flirting On Social Media ]
[ Like Facebook, Twitter Or Skype ]

[ You Would Welcome Them With Open Arms ]
[ Treating Them As Family ]
[ Because You Felt That No One Ever Meant To Do Harm ]
[ Until They Cheated On You Repeatedly ]

[ No One Is Perfect & That Includes You ]
[ When It Comes To Dishonesty ]
[ Cheating Is One Of The Things That They Will Do ]

[ When They Needed To Go ]
[ You Used Kind Words To Say ]
[ When It Was Time To Let Them Know ]

[ A Pretty Face, But A Black Soul ]
[ Somewhere In Their Past, Someone Did Something Wrong ]
[ Opening Up A Hole ]
[ Causing Their Resolve To Not Be Very Strong ]

[ When Fingers Were Pointed In Your Direction ]
[ You Would Make The Suggestion ]
[ That They Needed To Make A Correction ]

[ Telling Them To Hold The Mirror Up To Their Face ]
[ Then Asking, “What Do You Now See?” ]
[ Do They Leave Post-Haste? ]
[ Because What They Probably Saw Was Pretty … ]
[ Ugly ]

[ Words Were No Longer Exchanged ]
[ What Else Could Be Said? ]
[ Hopefully They Changed ]
[ The Lies That They Were Thinking When They Went To Bed ]

[ In A Separate Home ]
[ Alone … ]

Mahalo,
Lopaka DeVoe

(001)▪︎[ Self-Care … 2026 ]

How do you make time for self-care?

[ You Have The Opposite Problem ]

[ You Have Too Much Time On Your Hands ]

[ You Are In Your New Apartment, (24/7), Except When Your Caregivers Takes You To An Appointment ]

[ You Don’t Have A Job Because Of Your Disability ]

[ You Don’t Drive Because Of Your Disability ]

[ You No Longer Have A Wife ]

[ Your Primary Human Contact Are Your Caregivers ]

[ But You Have The Best Caregivers That You Have Ever Had, Now ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

(001)▪︎[ Trip … 2026 ]

What’s the longest trip you’ve ever taken?

[ What Was Your Longest Trip? ]

[ You Would Probably Have To Say That It Was When You Drove From Southern Oregon Up To Northern Alaska ]

[ It Was About An (8) Day Trip ]

[ You & (2) Friends Made The Trip One Summer ]

[ Once We Got Into Canada, We Drove The Al/Can Highway All The Way Through Canada Into Alaska ]

[ We Had The Worst Luck When It Came To Your Friends Used Truck ]

[ He Bought The Truck Specifically For This Trip ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~

(001)▪︎[ Mindset … 2026 ]

How does your mindset affect your financial success?

[ Mindset? … ]

[ You Would Think That Your Financial Success Or Decline Would Have Everything To Do With Your Mindset ]

[ If Your Mindset Is Not Centered You Could Be Reckless & Careless, Causing A Complete Collapse Of Your Financial Picture ]

[ If You Plan & Stay The Course, Most Times You Will Come Out Okay ]

Mahalo,

~ Lopaka DeVoe ~